Good question and interesting discussion!
We were very young when we became parents. We learned that only some “true” people will stay with you during the thick and thin. We are very social people and we had tons of friends around. That time we never had an idea that people can be so hollow and heartless. Once we had our baby and when we were going through some difficult situation, all the people just disappeared! I wish I had known this before so that it would not have affected me too much to the point of having depression.