Things Strong Independent Women Never Ever Do

Remember “Rani” from Queen and “Shruthi” from Band Baaja Baaraat, played by the Bollywood divas Kangna Ranaut and Anushka Sharma. There is something attractive about these women characters. Yes, they are very strong and independent women.  We all have wished to be like them, to be bold and fearless.

The term ‘strong independent woman’ sounds so pleasing to everybody. But the choices and circumstances one need to make in order to become one is very hard than most people could ever think. Earlier, being a strong woman means being successful, it was like having an own apartment or a high-powered job.  But, now with increased amount of unemployment, most young women couldn’t reach up to those level.

So, what it takes to be a strong independent woman?

A strong, independent woman can find the best in her situation and work hard to improve it while retaining her ethical values and strengths. If you have ever struggled to become one, here are some points to remember. Check out the list of things a strong independent girl will never do.

Never Neglect their Career

There is nothing more attractive than a career oriented woman. The priority for every independent woman will be her career. Whether it is a night shift job or a job that keeps her away from her family, these women always work hard and keep an eye on their future. To be an independent woman you should keep your dream and aspiration as high as possible.

They Never Fail to Handle Situations

Good or bad, a strong independent girl always handles the situation by her own. These women never fail to make their voice heard and ensure to make their point clear on their choices. They keep to themselves their worries at the office, family problems and financial stress. It is not bad to depend on others but to have that inner strength to handle it yourself is great.

Never Overreact to Mistakes

These women never cry over spilled milk; they always accept their mistakes and learn from them. They don’t even complain the world for giving her tough situation but keeps the inner faith to overcome those. There is no point in overreacting to any hard situation; all you need is the patience to adapt, improvise and overcome. Strong independent women never whine or complain, they may mope for a while but after that, they move on.

Never Stop Learning

It is sad that most people easily lose interest in improving their sense of knowledge. But strong independent women never stop learning, they always want to make their time productive. Instead of lending an ear to those latest gossips, these women move on to people whose opinion they value and care, where they can explore a new point of view. They are always keen to update their knowledge and never let anyone stop her from that.

Never take decisions on first impulse

As mentioned earlier, these women always have the patience to wait and think. In any occasions, they never take decisions in a hurry. They give it the time to analyze it in every possible way and arrive at a practical solution. Strong independent women never regret the decision they made, and they don’t even need to.

Never Lose Their Self-Esteem

To be a strong independent woman the first thing you should do is to build confidence and faith in yourself. These girls never let others opinion affect their self-esteem. They know and accept their own weaknesses and find the qualities in themselves and make them stand out. They never feel insecure about their gender, financial status or physical standards, they treat themselves with pride and thus, they get it back.

Never Skip Their Physical Needs

Being a woman, this one is the most difficult thing to follow. Most women always sacrifice their physical needs for their loved ones. But a strong independent woman never does that, they always find time to take care of their health and physiological needs. They make sure that they get enough sleep, eat the nutritious meal and keep themselves fit. These women know that they need to take care of themselves first, to take care of the ones who depend on them. 

Never Keep Unrealistic Expectations

A strong independent woman will always keep herself grounded and work for realistic goals. If your expectations are not logical, you will end up being unhappy. To become an independent strong woman, you should keep your expectations in check and be optimistic for realistic goals.

Never Struggle with A Toxic Relationship

These women never allow themselves to continue in a dissatisfied, irritating toxic relationship. Strong independent women always keep those relationships that bring out the positive in her; they cut of the other people who spread negativity. It can be a random relative or a close friend, these women never hang around with people whom with she could not adjust.

Never Let Others Dictate their Love Life

Every woman love to be in a romantic relationship. A strong independent girl always chooses a life partner who is as much strong and independent as her. They never accept others opinion or allow them to dictate their relationship. They expect a relationship with respect and loyalty. These women will wait until they find the right man who is worthy enough to have them.

Never Lose Control of Their Lives

A strong independent girl always takes control of their life. Knowing that you are in control of your decisions and your lifestyle is a perfect boost to your inner confidence. They will say no to the things that they don’t want, without any guilt.  These women create their own future without relying upon others.

So, what are you waiting for?

Go for it ladies…

Be that empowered goddess everyone wishes to become. Find your inner strength and let people fall in love with you unconditionally beyond your pretty face.